Blindfold me

Dear blog,

I finally met my basketball girls!

Shuhadah is so busy it is almost impossible to have a proper day out with her. Lunched & spent the afternoon chatting away :) & shamelessly took embarrassing photos..

Gonna be 21 in 2 months time & I am still acting like I'm 16. Oh well! This is just me when I'm with my loved ones - retard mode ON.

Despite the team being small (like just the 3 of us), the bond we have is as strong as a full-sized team :) Sometimes you just feel it when you meet someone & know that he/she is going to be in your life forever. I'm blessed to be part of them!

Anyway I had salad for lunch today. I cannot believe it. Recently I've been feeling quesy whenever I think of red/fatty meats (which I usually adore). It's a good thing because I've read that my blood type is incompatible with a diet rich in meats. Time to eat cleaner, even my body is pushing me towards that way! & I am embracing it!

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Lately, I saw a series photos on FB, featuring an annoying (well.. Used to be) guy from my JC, & his newly steady gf. 

I was sort of surprised when I saw his gf (in his photos). Never have I ever expected him to go for girls who are less than an 8 out of 10. He has always portrayed himself as a guy who only gives a damn about good-lookers (to me, at least).

Then this made me realised that I am pretty judgemental. I am too quick to classify people. My eyes magnify flaws & overlooked strengths. 

It really should've been the other way round. 

We should never hastily label the people we meet. We should always give them the benefit of the doubt, the chance to prove their better selves, & forgive them when their ugly sides surface. We all sin in some points of our lives & it is only through these granted opportunities that we can change to become a better person.

One of my new year resolution is to love more. But how can I love when all I see is the negative? I must constantly remind myself to keep an open mind; remember the good but be aware of the not-so-good as well.

I hope to learn more about myself everyday. So that I could consciously make efforts to become a better person.

Alright, that's all for tonight.